Thursday, December 10, 2009

Welcome, L Word friends

Welcome my friends,
As I promised, I have set up this blog in the event our MB is taken down. Hopefully, we'll have many more discussions about our "girls". Stop by at any time.
Added: We are all adults, I think. Let's all be civil about our comments and not post angry, mean messages. Everyone is entitled to their point of view but please, be civil and respectful of others.

Peace!!!

225 comments:

  1. Harlem, thank you for the invite. I feel privileged to join the blog. Thank you also for setting it up. I wish much success to OUR OWN PERSONAL L WORD SITE.

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  2. gofigor,
    Thanks for joining!!! I hope it is a great success as well. If you have any friends who would like to join and blog about our "girls", feel free to invite them.

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  3. I'M IN YIPEEE! Harlem great job in setting up this. Yes it is about time you provide us with your long overdue account of TIBETTE's 'first time'. Hey Gofigor, you are no longer alone!

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  4. holy crap...i'm finally in...can't believe the trip i've taken...

    Anyway...hello everyone...thanks for setting this up harlem...I'm using Dalice711 b/c the name I wanted was taken. And, 7/11 is Leisha's B-day.
    This is so cool...I'm sure Gia will be here shortly.

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  5. Harlem, surely you have seen the mean spirited posts by first S.W.A.K. and now coming from cute_as_shit, who HIPS and I believe are one in the same person, so I would make a very selfish request that if, and although doubtful, she/he/it would try to join this blog that you deny the request.

    Welcome aboard Miss Hips and Miss Dalicet. I hope the others "tag along" soon.

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  6. hi gofigor...haven't seen their posts yet, but absolutely deny their requests to join,if they've got the nerve to even ask.
    I've been reading mean-spirited posts for a long time, and I'm so tired of their bullsh*t meanness...they hate Ilene Chaiken, which I don't and have put down the LWord in every sentence they belch out.
    It is by far, THE best show on lesbians I have ever seen, and I can't express how much I miss it. So glad we have this blog..luv u harlem!

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  7. harlem, can u delete ppl who just join to create havoc or fighting???

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  8. Welcome my peeps!!! It is good to hear from all of you on this blog.
    Pertaining to the mean-spirited people - I believe I have the ability to remove them from the blog. I do have the authority to not add them as authors. The only way they can post is if they are given authorization as an author to post to the blog. CAS/SWAK, so far, have not sent in their email addresses. So we are okay for now. Only those who sent me their email addresses are the only ones who can read what we are posting to the blog. Hopefully, more people will join.

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  9. HOLA EVERYBODY!

    I am up late tonight and decided to hop on over to the new 'liming' spot for us Lword lovers.Btw, the word 'liming' is a slang we use here in T&T to describe hanging out. Will be posting my questions soon and look forward to everyone's views. GOODNIGHT YOU ALL!

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  10. Well this blog is coming together nicely. So far all of my favorite peeps are in, with a few I would like to see here. This is going to be great, intelligent women with something constructive to say and to share personal or impersonal thoughts and comments. Yes, too many mean spirited posts on the MB. Why they bother when they have such dislike for IC and/or TLW and/or Jennifer, Laurel, etc. is just beyond me. And may I say to all my wonderful cyberpal lesbians, thank you for accepting us "straight" women into your family. The poster CAS has said some awful things about us so I am happy that all gay women do not feel that way about us.

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  11. hi everybody...autostraddle is doing a poll on the hottest chick on TV and Jennifer Beals is on the list for the LWord..
    I've already voted and will do it again and again if possible. Link is:

    http://www.autostraddle.com/vote-for-the-hottest-girl-on-television-in-2009-25673/

    JB deserves this win....

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  12. Dalicet, I wholeheartedly agree and isn't it great that she is at the top of the list? My vote is in and if able, I too, will vote again, and again, and again.....

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  13. Thank you to all that have joined and commented. Gofigor, I think it is safe to say that "we" welcome one and all to the blog as long as everyone respects one another. As I said before, I think we are all adults. This blog was not created to bad-mouth anyone. Anyone can disagree with a point of view but please, be civil.
    I voted for JB without thinking twice. There were others who fit the category. And yes, isn't it a coincidence that she is listed in the number "1" spot? That has to say something!!! ;-)

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  14. Hello my friends!!! Im finally HERE!!! .... i was going crazy thinking there was somethign wrong with me for not finding the blog..... it turns out harlem needed to add me!! lol...

    I kinda feel safe here... like i wont get killed for posting how i feel about things.... you know bc there are ppl on the MB who will just almost cut your head off......

    gofigor and harlem..... i dont think i ever said this before but since were in a safe place ill say it..... i think those haters on the MB who said shit about you guys for being straight are nothign but STUPID. lesbians and gays have been fighting all this time to stop discrimination yet were ready to discriminate straight girls from a lesbian MB??? it just doesnt make any sense..... GIRL POWER!!!!! :D

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  15. Aye aye there Gia! Welcome! I think it was Gofigor and Hips you wanted to address as 'straight' gals as Harlem is 'bent' already lol!! Coming to think about it gofigor has already admitted that she is attracted to the beautiful JB so she has already started to 'turn the corner' in my view LOL!!!!!
    Gofigor, I am just 'pulling your already long legs' pal. So gals when is our first party?

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  16. GIA-Welcome my friend and thank you for your comments and "acceptance". I no more chose to be straight than you chose to be gay. We are women first, last and always. I too have a hard time understanding how folks who are discriminated upon all the time then choose to also discriminate. I welcome open conversation from everyone and never judge. And by the way, pay no never mind to HIPS and that "around the corner" thing. If truth be told, she would tackle me to get "around that corner" ahead of me. TAG...YOU'RE IT HIPS:-)

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  17. LOL!! hips and gofigor....

    Yess gofigor... women first, last and ALWAYS!!!

    just wanted to wish everyone a safe christmas eve and also a MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!

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  18. Gia...you found us...yeah!

    Happy Holidays everybody...it's good to be amongst friends. God Bless!
    Hope all your wishes come true.

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  19. MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL OF MY NEW FOUND FRIENDS. IT HAS BEEN A GIFT OF JOY AND PLEASURE TO BE A PART OF THIS "SPECIAL FAMILY".

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  20. I am glad that everyone was able to find the blog. I thought my instructions was simple but I may have left out an instruction or two!!! Persistance paid off, yes? Let me know via ladytee135@gmail.com what problems you had so that I can correct it for those that are trying to sign up.

    LOL

    We have a special place here. I am happy that we are all here together, in the name of "The L Word".
    Happy Holidays to everyone! Be safe and enjoy all of your friends and family. I'm sure that our lovely Jennie B is doing so as we "speak"!!! ;-)

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  21. Merry Christmas, wishing all a safe and happy holiday.

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  22. Hola everyone, I am new to this blog. Unfortunately I was not part of the MB but hope to get acquainted with all of you soon enough. I am a huge fan of the L Word and Harlem's bestest bud :-P.

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  23. Hi Harlem....anyway the background color can be changed to white or a very light color.. if nobody objects? My page is showing up navy blue and the posts are difficult to read. My eyes ain't as young as they used to be!..lol..help :-)

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  24. Good day everyone!!!

    hips i never did get ur email off the MB ..... and i didnt wanna share mine there.... soo ill share my email here..

    glirialopez12@aol.com send me an email so we can keep in touch in and outside the blog and board. :D

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  25. Dalicet, whew, I thought I was the only one. I too have a navy blue background with black print. Is there some way I can change it or is this something Harlem has to do?

    PS Cute as Shit is at it again and was very hurtful to Fatty who is dealing with a tough holiday season due to death of loved ones. What she posted on MY FANTASY on the MB was mean. We need to encourage Fatty to join the blog so she can vent here without that B*&#@h seeing what we write and making such evil comments.

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  26. HELLO EVERYONE!

    It feels really nice coming here. Welcome SexeeEyez! A friend of Harlem is a friend of ours.
    GIA, I would email you soon. The address you see is the one that I created just for my pals on the board. Now I have a question for all my gay pals to answer/give your opinion on. Gofigor you can give your input too seeing that might be able to 'relate' to this question personally LOL!!!!!!!!

    Ok here it is. WHAT WOULD YOU TERM, DEEM, CONSIDER A WOMAN/MAN WHO IS HAPPILY MARRIED AND ENJOYS THEIR HETEROSEXUAL RELATIONSHIP BUT ALSO ENJOYS HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE OF THE SAME SEX FROM TIME TO TIME? Note: THEY HAVE NO DESIRE TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE OF THE SAME SEX, NOT TO DATE, NOT TO BE INVOLVE WITH THEM IN ANY OTHER WAY EXCEPT SEX.

    Now the question came up because I was told by a bisexual friend of mines that there are people who do this. I asked her the same question that I am asking here but she obviously never gave it thought and knowing her she does not care ONE IOTA as to what gives with these people. My enquiring mind still wants an answer though so ladies..............take it away!

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  27. HIPS-the answer is an easy one for me. The key word to me is MARRIED. Now I preface by saying I have never been married. I am a practicing Catholic and believe that you take one partner for the rest of your life (should you be so lucky). No sex with anyone outside the marriage, hetero, bi, gay or otherwise. If that person is Happily married as you say, then I question their need for "just sex". I think your friend is curious and perhaps uncertain about her true feelings for the person she is married to. Saying it is just sex does not make it okay. JMO

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  28. PS to HIPS.....got your reference. Keep in mind, I was not the married one....I think it makes a difference, NO?

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  29. To all my peeps,
    Happy Holidays to all. I changed the font color to make it easier to read.
    CAS has issues!!! Don't feed the fodder!!!

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  30. Hey everyone!!!!

    CAS does have issues LMAO I am now gonna ignore her the best I can. Does anyone want me to have the lovely Kitty join our little blog? I can try to get her to join in on it. She is pretty busy now with work and the move she just made. Thank you for the request. I'm glad I can come here and discuss anything I want to without being criticized by people.

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  31. WOW FATTY.................FINALLY PAL! Well if we get a nice, soft kitty in here that would be really nice and then add a certain LOST Greek then that would be a double delight!

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  32. Harlem-Wow what a great surprise to find lighter font. It is wonderful and so much easier to read. Thank You.

    Fatty-Welcome my friend. You are safe here and can post openly. Yes Kitty is welcomed here. Thankfully Harlem holds the key to who can join the blog so CAS aka SWAK are not going to bother you here.

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  33. Hey Girls !!!!!! Finally, I AM HEREEEEE !!!!!! Good to see u here too !!!!!

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  34. OH THERE SHE IS!!!!!!!!

    LOST, I see that you finally FOUND your way over here. GREAT TO SEE YOU!

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  35. Hi Trouble(a.k.a Hips )!!! lol lol lol
    Yes,i am finally here with all of u guys!For once again,i found my way !!!!!

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  36. Yea.....all is not LOST. Welcome girlfriend. Good to have you with us.

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  37. awsome!! everyone is finally here!!!... :D

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  38. I am happy to see that everyone is here. The countdown has started for the Showtime MB. 34 days and counting!!!

    :-(

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  39. Thanks harlem...so much easier to read!

    My best buddy from Arizona (my 2nd home)suggested you send Ilene Chaiken an invitation to this blog...on Twitter. She might just be curious enuf to take a look-see!

    What do u think?

    Wish JB and Leisha had twitter accounts.

    It's so great to be here with all of you...!!

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  40. Ok so everyone remember how I was telling people I was having a hard time with the news a teacher of mine did something well, I just got questioned by the police in my town. They were asking me a bunch of questions about stuff. The Sargent said you have been out of there for a while right I said yes its been 8 years I graduated from the 8th grade in 2001. So they really cant use anyone in my grade if he did do anything to them just put it on record that he did touch another student. I was scared when the cop called here. This really sickens me to no end. I hope he does go away to jail for a long time. I am really wondering if they are going around asking all the students from the time he started till now. If they are that's a lot of students to be calling. They said they had concerns that he did something to me from a Facebook group I am in with other students that had the teacher. Sigh this is such a flipping mess

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  41. Hi EVERYONE! Well let me see, HARLEM opened her AVEnue and gave us directions to GO FIGOR out our way here. The AVE was wide enough for my HIPS to pass in because they are not SO BROAD and lighted well enough for SEXeeEYEZ to see her way. Anyone that was LOST found their way over and a GirlInAction came bringing her FATTY friend as DA LICE got longer. This AVEnue is long too so it has space for others who wish to move here EXCEPT anyone who is packing a load of SHIT even if you think it's CUTE. So pals lets start the party but...DO NOT LEAVE any DEBREE behind!

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  42. Yes I am missing debree as well, so if any of you have a special connection, encourage her to join us. Very well done HIPS.

    Fatty-so sorry you are still dealing with this mess. I am not sure what the Statute of Limitations (length of time you have to charge someone with a crime)is for this in your area, but depending on age, they might be able to go back several years and if they find enough kids that he touched, or groped, etc. they can charge him with all of it so that when it is judgment day (his day in court) they can lock him away for a very long time, providing they do the right thing and find him GUILTY. You have my support. I am sure you have all of our support as you deal with this. XOXO

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  43. LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL !!!!!!

    Hips,well done !!!! So nice !!!!

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  44. hips

    thats nice... if only i was in it... :(

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  45. GIA YOU ARE! You are the GirlInAction!

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  46. AHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! DUHHH!!!

    ok i feel dumb!!!

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  47. Goodmorning my friends !!!!!!! Have a great day girls !!!!! cu later !!!!

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  48. Gofigor, the Statute of Limitations is 5 years I believe. But I am sure they can put it into record that he has done this and that to other students. I just can't believe this is happening. It seems from the police really looking into this that he really did do this to that little 12 year old. It just I never once thought he could do this. Oh well, how is everyone's day going? Mine is alright.

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  49. Hey Harlem, my friend, did you notice the new thread on the MB titled L Blog? Apparently we aren't good enough for this poster and she has created her own blog. I didn't waste my time checking it out but wanted to give you a heads up. Just thought you might be interested.

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  50. harlem or anyone else should open a thread to give directions on how to sign up to our blog since apparently hips read that the board is going down at midnight.......

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  51. AYE PEOPLE! Apparently the poster I was quoting got their information wrong. So as it stands the date for the board to close down is still the end of next month. Nevertheless I think we should do as Gia suggests or whenever we post in another thread with people we feel comfortable chatting with we should give them directions on how to get here. I am doing that as I go along.
    Fatty and Gia, I am digging your pics!

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  52. WHEW !!!! At first,i was confused with all the MB coming down thing,but now i am ok !!! lol lol
    Good evening ladies !!!!! I see some of us have our pics !!! I am really glad that i know the faces of the people i speak with all these months !!! So,is everyone ok?
    Hips,in a few days i will join u !!!!!

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  53. Hey guys I was wondering if you all ever came across this video of tibette?

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t-3GtgKsDlA

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  54. hips

    oh yessss.... ive seen that vidoe numerous times.... pure awsomeness!!

    Lost yess its nice to put a face to the name!! :D

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  55. Gia12,
    Hips posted the instructions on the "L Blog" thread so that others can sign up on the blog. The main thing to do for those who want to sign up is to send me your email address, preferably a Goggle, Facebook, or Twitter, etc email account. If you don't have one of these accounts, send me whatever email address you use and I will try to set you up. You have to sign up first (but you don't have to set up a blog, if you don't want to). Make sure you read the TOS (Terms of Service) first and if you agree, then sign up. Send your email address to: ladytee135@gmail.com. The blog is on www.blogger.com or look for "Our L Word Place" on blogger. See you there!!!!!

    ;-)

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  56. GOODMORNING LADIES! Been a bit under the weather today and yesterday but trying to fight it somewhat.I hope we all have a great day.

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  57. Happy New Year's Eve my friends !!!!!!

    I wish to everyone of u HAPPY NEW YEAR with HEALTH,LOVE,HAPPINESS and PEACE.It may be difficult to have all these things in our lives,but trying never hurt anyone !

    I will try to be here later,so cu guys !!!!

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  58. Good day everyone!!

    harlem alright...... that sounds good... hopefully we can get more ppl join us.


    hips

    im sorry ur still feeling sick. any chance of you partying tonight??


    So today im a lil sad i guess..... this will be my first new years without my mom.... she decided to stay and work, which really sucks cuz im gonna miss her. :/ she wont come home until monday.


    anyway what is everyoe doing tonight??? Im just going to my aunts planning on drinking a lil bit. Me and the gf will be cooking a dish we love for the kids, and us. LOL!

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  59. HAPPY NEW YEARS TO EVERYBODY!! NO partying tonight for me Gia and I am sorry that you would not have your mom around to enjoy it with. You and the gf would be cooking? What? When? Where? Oh girl I might be tempted to haul my sick ass out of this bed for some good food. I don't know about the drinking part though.

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  60. LOL hips!!

    wouldnt it be nice if we could all get together for say a dinner party...... it would be niceeeeeeeeeeee LOL!

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  61. Good evening ladies, just stopping by to wish you all a new year that is full of love, laughter, health and happiness.

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  62. YES Gia that would be nice, a cyber dinner party!

    Good night Sexee and Happy New year to you as well. May it bring for all of us what we wish for others.

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  63. Happy New Year's my friends!!! Hopefull, this year will be the best it has to offer, maybe "The L Word" movie???!!! (We hope!!!) :-)

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  64. Happy New Year Girls !!!!!!!!!

    Is anyone in here ?

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  65. Here u are !!!!! lol lol lol lol lol

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  66. Gia...hi girl, can u tell me how to take a picture from the uhhfansite and use it as a thumbnail? I luv that one of Leisha's eye.

    Do I have to ask permission and go thru them?
    www.uhhuhherfan.com

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  67. What's uuuuuuup ladies ???????
    How u doin'??????

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  68. GIA

    There's one sad truth in life I've found
    while journeying east and west;
    The only folks we really wound
    are those we love the best;
    We flatter those we scarcely know
    We please the fleeting guest
    And deal full many a thoughtless blow
    To those who love us best.

    In reflection I realize that you never meant to hurt or offend me. Your apology is accepted and I offer mine to you as well.
    Perhaps we can agree to disagree and put this blip, in an otherwise wonderfully warm and fullfilling relationship, behind us. I will, hopefully, see you again on the MB. Please know that I love and care about you.

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  69. Hi there my lovely friends !!!! I hope everyone is having a really good day !!! Are u still on vacations guys??? COME HOMEEEEEEEE!!!! lol lol lol

    Gofigor,i have no words...this is very beautiful !

    Harlem,i think i don't know where are u from or where u live?But,if u don't want to answer it's ok,really.

    Where are the other girls??? Wake uuuuuuup !!!

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  70. LostInTheL,
    I am an East Coast, US resident, born and raised.

    ;-)

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  71. Gofigor

    that is indeed a very wise poem and i have to agree with it 100%. lets move forward and remember that with each and everyday we get a fresh start, and that everything in the world has a remedy except death.


    with that said i would like to add that ive been pretty busy ..... keeping up with my new years resolution.... .eating healthy and exercising every day....its a painful process but once my body gets use to it, it will pay off. :)

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  72. Hi Gia, EVERYBODY!

    Don't know what it was but I am a light sleeper so the slightest sound wakes and well something woke me. I am UP now and really don't feel like getting out of my bed to actually pick up my books to study for exams later, yes I AM A CRAMMER lol!!I remember best that way. I think I am going to try and go back to sleep but knowing myself I most likely would not get that do.

    GIA I think I might have to join you on the exercising part. Been meaning to for the longest time to start but my damaged knee is quite the deterrent. I will certainly be cheering you on in both attempts.

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  73. Hey girls !!!!!!!
    How are u ???? Gia and Gofigor,good to have u back both my friends ! That's nice !!
    My day was full ! We had family guests and they were many !!!! lol lol lol lol lol We had great time though !
    My sister went back at her home in Athens and now everything are back to normal !!! My room i mean back to normal !!!! lol lol lol lol lol

    What's up with u ladies?????

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  74. Well tomorrow if life spare is the BIG day for me I think. No matter how much times I have practiced and no matter how well I play at home, when it is time to perform in front of my peers and examiners it is something else.

    I have four pieces to perform.Two classical pieces a basso nova rhythm and a Spanish piece that requires only picking at a fast pace. THAT ONE is the most challenging for me and I have waited this long before I played it. Well I am going to trust God to see me through this one.

    GOFIGOR I am not sure that if I follow your advice that I WOULD be able to play my pieces LOL!!! The thought of some of the guys naked would only make me more nervous than anything.

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  75. Hey Everyone!!!!

    Well, I have been having a good last few days. I hope everyone else is too. Oh and I have been sleeping at night...Yay!!!!

    Gia how are you friend?

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  76. WELL PEEPS IT IS FINALLY OVER! Yes I am finished with exams for the while. Today my performance was in my view satisfactory. It was not the best I had ever done nor the worst. Glad it is behind me now though. The new semester starts in two weeks so I will be having another break from classes but that is it for me and vacation.Yep next week if life spare it is back to my part-time day job.....teaching.

    FATTY, It is indeed wonderful news to hear that the last few days have been good and that you are finally getting some sleep in the night. Might this have anything to do with 'BUSYING' yourself during the day? 'wink wink'

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  77. Lost, thanks, it is good to be back among friends.

    Fatty-great, great news that you are having some good days. I could not be happier. With all you have been going through no one deserves it more. Hey maybe you might want to send a shout out to cute as s _ _ t and let her know. Haaaaaaaaaa....kidding, of course.

    Hips, was going to write you but I see from your blog that you are finished with exams. I suspect your "satisfactory" is probably really an "excellent". BTW I know I mentioned I love the guitar, but did I mention that Spanish guitar is one of my most favorite kinds of music. There was one musician, and for the life of me I cannot remember his name, I am sure you know who he is, that played
    Spanish guitar so beautifully and effortlessly I could listen to him all night. Have not seen nor heard any of his music in years, though. I think it was also called Flamenco (is that the same)? Anyway, I am glad for you that all your exams are over and you can now have a little 'me' time. Take time to smell the roses.

    Gia.....MIA again? Where are you.

    Harlem, this is your blog, where are you girl?
    Later everyone....

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  78. Hi everyone, just wanted to stop by and say hi.
    Have company in from Arizona and they're keeping me busy.

    Hope you all have a great new year. 2 of my resolutions are already down the drain. But, I'll keep trying...

    Gia, what's up girl...Cam said she's hoping to see some of her friends/fans on the 13th. lol..

    Be back when I get 2 minutes to myself. At least, they're watching the L Word with me on SHO.

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  79. Hi girls !!! How are u today ?

    Hey Dalice...! Good to see u !!!

    These days i am not doing my trainings,cause of my knee and i am all day at home !!!! I am sooooooo bored !!! I think i will go tomorrow at the stadium and watch my team doing training!lol lol lol lol lol
    Hope everyone has a peaceful evening !

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  80. Hello, my peeps!! Been a bit busy. I'm still posting on the MB at Showtime and I have been watching the rerun of Season 6 on Showtime and Season 1 on LOGO. Would like to get a new dialog going about our girlz from the beginning. I still watch the show with renewed interest. And, I went to a local art exihibit featurning Kandinski art. OMG the man was truly an artist before his time. If the exhibit should reach your neck of the woods, I strongly encourage all to see it!!!!

    ;-)

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  81. Hips, oh my God! The first 2 pictures, drop dead georgeous. I so envy her natural beauty. Nice article and I am a little disappointed that producers and directors are taking so long to really appreciate this talented woman. Everything she does seems so natural. She is a true role model to all young women wanting to make a career in acting. She has lived an exemplar life. I just wish that they would put her with some good looking men and some lighter roles. I think she would be absolutely great in a comedy. I could listen to her laugh and watch her smile all day.

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  82. gofigor, Do you think she can still ride the subways????

    ;-)

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  83. Harlem, JB has so many different looks that I think she can still move around LA and NY without being noticed. I recall in an interview that she commented that she relished that and the fact she has never been hounded by the paparazzi. Riding the subways. Hmmmm, I would surely give her a ride, wouldn't you?

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  84. hey there dalicet im sooooorrryyy for my late reply ive been really busy late and on top of that i forget to check the blog!!

    so in the end i ended up not going to the UHH gig..... i got cought up trying to get classes.... sucks but im sure ill make it next time....


    since i havent seen you guys (harlem, debree, and dalicet) on the MB ill share my video here....so i just made a new tibette video and i know you guys usually enjoy them..... so ill share it here on the blog as well...

    heres the link:


    http://www.youtube.com/my_videos

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  85. Hey ladies..just checking in to see if anything is happening here. Looks like we are still glued to the MB but I suspect activity will be heavy here come 2-1-10......
    Anyone following stickeye? OMG I am on the edge of my seat........

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  86. gofigor,
    I would absolutely give Jennifer a ride if I were a subway motorperson but I would provide her a chauffeured limousine!!!

    14 days and counting!!!

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  87. Just watched JB in an interview given on Good Morning, LA on the tibette.com site. JB is hot, hot, hot. I love the way she enunciates her words. Yes, she is still a cutie-pie!!!!

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  88. Gia12,
    Noooooo!!!! The link did not show anything. Any new updates????!!!!!

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  89. If I could, I would stay here and post all day but life still goes on. Some days I get really busy at work and by the time I get home I am exhausted. Now, I will be posting more since it is now my mission in life to keep up with my peeps!!!!!
    Inspired by "The Book of Eli".
    ;-)

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  90. SOOOOOOOORRRRRRRRRRRRYYYYYYYY!!!!!!


    ok heres the right link


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rPV5tCOGAvc

    ENJOY!!!!!!!

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  91. LOL harlem that is AWSOME!!!!! well be waiting for you!!!!!

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  92. Gia12,
    Thanks for the link. A beautiful video. What a journey! My heart just aches when I see the fight and the subsequent destruction of their relationship. I thank the Fates for bringing them back together.

    ;-)

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  93. GOOD AFTERNOON FELLOW BLOGGERS!

    Imagine it is 1:46 in the afternoon and I have not eaten lunch as yet. What am I waiting on you ask? FOR MY NIECE TO FINISH COOK THE DAMN FOOD of course! STEUPS! I don't understand why people like to sleep away most of the morning and for the rest of the day have to be hustling to get everything done at a certain time. STEUPS!Ok I am finish ranting for the while. LATER PEEPS!

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  94. Hey Hips, why didn't you say something earlier? I could have made you an omelet or a sandwich to tide you over until dinner. See, this is why I live alone....well, that and the fact that apparently no man wants me......hahaha.....

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  95. LMAO gofigor!!!!!! awww its not that no man wants you.. its just that older man are awalys looking for younger women to F U C K

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  96. Hello, my peeps!!! Just checking in. Got a copy of "For Women First" with JB on the cover. My BFF picked it up for me. I'm so in seventh heaven!!!!


    ;-)

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  97. Hi everybody...how's it goin' ladies!

    hips,I tried to answer ur question on ur thread. But that 'cute as shit' person is still posting stupid shit. Good name for her 'stupid as shit'. She's tryin' to get a fight going is what I feel. I'm ignoring her.

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  98. DALICET,

    I read your responses and I must say that as with the rest, your answer(s) were insightful.

    Yes that individual have some real issues. I feel sorry for her in a way. To live with herself everyday must be a real challenge Oh well. They say SHIT stains and I guess in her case it is indeed true.

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  99. Hello everyone,
    Except when necessary, I ignore CAS. I will not let her ruin my mojo!!!! Thinks she is jealous that we all love TiBette the way we do even though she said that she likes TiBette. What a connundrum!!!

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  100. Well I think thanks to C_A_S the last 11 days or so of our My Fantasy thread has been deleted. I suspect the monitors did it. They also deleted some posts on other threads where C_A_S was posting. Hard to believe that one individual in this entire "family" has ruined it for all of us.
    Hey Hips, still looking for ya kiddo.

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  101. Hey everyone, Hips is having computer problems and I am afraid she is going to be MIA. I pray not, but if any of you have another way of communicating with her, can you just blog here from time to time and let us know that she is OK?

    Thanks.....

    Harlem---trying really hard my friend.

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  102. I think 'shitface' is doing it for attention!!
    What an a*hole!

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  103. S_W_A_K aka C_A_S is apparently now going my the moniker 2sexy4myshirt. I didn't pick up on this but credit our pal and fellow blogger LOST for noticing it and pointing it out. Urghhhhhhhhh!

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  104. Hey pals, anyone by chance have a cell phone number for HIPS? Lost? Fatty? Gia?

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  105. This is a little confusing, I meant for HIPS...asking Lost, Fatty and you Gia because I know you guys were chatting with her via email, etc.

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  106. Lost, yes I heard the same about the "new location". I am still thinking it over. Harlem has worked so hard to put this blog together and I have signed on to so many sites and boards and online email services just to communicate with all you guys that I don't know if I can't take one more. Why can't we stay here? Only reason I can think is that it does not include all the other loyal L Word posters.

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  107. HEY GUYS I AM BACK! WHEW! This was really frustrating not being able to use my laptop. Anyway, the problem has been rectified..for the most part...and it did not cost me anything!

    GOFIGOR, I know how you feel about the 'new location'. It is just a suggestion in case you all want to continue the 'MB' experience. It matters not either way with me. I really do like the idea of having our own little place HERE. I guess in the end it is an individual choice and so it should remain.

    GUYS, let me say before I end that I MISSED YOU ALL! Glad to be back!

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  108. OMG,
    I've been gone for a few days (getting ready for school)and all hell's breaking loose!!! LOL
    At the J.O.B. Will post again later to get up to date on what's been going on. Talk at y'all later.

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  109. Hips my friend, welcome back to our blog.
    Harlem, no one should be so busy as to ignore their own blog. Just kidding, when you have time, come back. Would like your input and thoughts about what we have posted recently.

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  110. gofigor,
    Good one! LOL
    I like what I have seen. I like the fact that those of us who are diehard fans signed up and want to continue posting about the show. Now that we have learned that D-Day did not happen, those that still want to post to the blog can do so. This will be just our "home away from home" so to speak!!!

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  111. Been reading some earlier posts on the MB, Season 4, Episode 12: Long Time Coming. PlaysWithToys and katiegirl have some interesting dialog on Bette and Tina, based on their own storylines. OOOOh, hot and heavy!!! Worth reading!!! Go check it out!!!

    ;-)

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  112. hi guys...my computer is screwed up again. Can't get into my mailbox either. I have to try 4 or 5 times b4 one log-on goes thru. Very frustrating.

    What is this about a 'new location'?? I read the posts above but I must have missed something.

    Where do I give my birthday? or do I email it to harlem?

    Lady GaGa rocks...very talented lady..enur with Taylor Swift already. Heard parts of Rhianna's album and I must say it's not good,imo.
    Was anyone else experiencing 'muting' when eminem & lil Wayne were rapping?? They must have been cursing their skinny asses off. And what's with their asses showing b/c their pants were falling down!! That is SOOO over already and it looks soooo uncool.

    And who was that beauty that was singing lead for that Broadway play??? Man,what a freaken great body and those amazing LEGS!

    Gia, your aunt sounds like a really nice woman. She's in my prayers all the time. She will have to suffer thru 8 chemo's. My heart goes out to her.

    Hope everyone is doing good. I see the MB is still going on....don't know what's going on with SHO. but it's all good.

    I'm helping my brother with a lawsuit against his doctor so that's taking alot of my extra time...getting all his paperwork ready for the lawyer. I told him it'll be a hard fight against the medical field.

    Anyway, I'm gonna check out Gia's video. She's such a cutie. Gia Wikidiva!!

    So are we keeping this blog,right?? I like this place. Bye for now.

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  113. dalice711,
    The blog is here to stay!!! This is our "home away from home".

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  114. Dalicet-I hope your computer problems are resolved quickly. It seems like all of us have experienced troubles with our computers over the past few months. Very frustrating. Also found your blogging about helping your brother interesting. Before I retired in July, I worked (25 years) for a big lawfirm and 99% of our work was medical malpractice. I know you are a smart woman, but be sure that your brother is being represented by a law firm/lawyer that specializes in medical malpractice as it is a very specialized field and requires much knowledge of medicine and resources (i.e. medical experts, etc). I hope that your brother is okay (health wise).

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  115. DALICET...YOU....ARE...REQUIRED...TO....POST....
    YOUR....BIRTH...DATE...SOMEWHERE...ON....THIS....
    BLOG!

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  116. Hipsy....I DID post it...it's there somewhere girl. I swear!!!

    gofigor...thanks so much,yes,my brother will be going thru a malpractice lawyer. He's had 3 back surgeries but 2 of them were b/c of the first not going right. Nothing is ever so clear cut. And, fighting the medical community is near impossible.

    I'm trying to lay the whole thing out for him.
    He may be better off not proceeding.

    I just want to say something about the mayor of Las Vegas...what a prick to talk about & to our President the way he did. The asshole's underlying racist sense of entitlement is the only reason behind his disrespectful statements.

    There I got that off my chest! I only wish I could say it to his ugly face!

    OK then, time for a nice cup of coffee and something sweet.

    Has anyone seen this pic...photo-shop at work!

    http://twitpic.com/11rzjj

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  117. Dalicet, what happened with the mayor of LV? As for whether or not to proceed, let the lawyer decide. I presume they work as we did, on continengcy, meaning you pay nothing if you lose. As I said it is a costly undertaking that the lawfirm eats if they lose so they should be able to tell you whether it is a case worth pursuing. So your brother has nothing to lose. Although I will tell you that most malpractice cases are lost in court. We had an expression at our firm that held out to be true most times, 'the good cases settle, the bad ones go to trial'.
    Cute picture, he looks like a loaf of bread.

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  118. gofigor, hi, that major was upset b/c Obama,in his speech, said don't blow money you don't have on Vegas. The mayor spoke very disrespectfully towards the Prez saying he's not welcome in Vegas & that O is a slow learner. His tone of voice was as bad as his words. He would never have spoken that way to Bush!
    Black spokesman wants apology from that a*hole to Prez O. and to give him the keys to the city of Las Vegas. No response yet.

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  119. Getting buried in snow. Missed the blizzard from last weekend that blanketed DC and Philly. Mama Nature got NY at last!!! Still had to go to work!!! It's all good.
    How's my peeps? Hope everyone is doing well. Lot of JB movies on TV. Check your TV guides!!!
    Hoo-rah!!!

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  120. Thanks for the heads up Harlem. I have been trying to find They Shoot Divas and finally it is airing here so will finally get to see it.

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  121. AYE THERE PEEPS! Now we have had this house and people living in it for some months now. I want to know WHOSE CHORE IT IS TO COOK THE FOOD? It is time to get the pot bubbling. GIA, I have been reading that you have been doing a lot of cooking. Just remember you have FAMILY to feed on this end aight?

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  122. Ok, I will step up to the plate HIPS and do the first meal but you will have to do the dishes. Menu tonight, chicken parmesan, side of spaghetti, baked potato, salad and your choice of drink. However, if you want wine or beer it will be BYO. For dessert I will make my famous cheesecake.
    Dinner is at 6. Bring your appetites and don't be late :-)

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  123. THANKS GOFIGOR!

    Ladies I just saw these pics of the beautiful LH. Had to share them with you all as we have seen so many of JB but very little of her scorching hot partner in LWORD crime.


    http://mikiphoto.smugmug.com/Other/heads-1/9647012_gzqpL#774209268_Ynpfg

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  124. Been out of the loop for a few days with PC problems. Upgrading to Win 7 was a pain. Some components don't work well with the OS. Back up and running, hopefully!!!
    How are my peeps? Hope everyone had a great Valentine's Day. Love the one you're with!!! LOL!!!!
    How many ordered JB's book??? Come on, fess up!!! I know everyone is ordering!!!???
    ;-)

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  125. gofogor,
    Anytime. I have my PC set up to alert me when any of JB's movies are being aired.

    Hoo-rah!!!!

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  126. Oops, gofigor, sorry about that. As always, the hands are quicker than the eyes.

    ;-)

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  127. Hey ladies !!!!! What's up ???

    Haven't seen Harlem and Dalicet for a long time!
    I hope they are doing great !!!!

    Gofigor my friend,i hope u didn't misunderstand what i said on the mb ! I think it's the only way to see this,with amusement !She ain't gonna stop,so i thought to make fun of her ! I am not saying bad things to her,as she does with us,so the funny way may be good for us!I hope i explained why i did this..
    Oh,Gofigor,i u haven't seen Desolation Sound with JB,i suggest u do it fast ! I only saw some clips and i have to say she is great indeed !I don't know how long she acts,but OMG !!!Her role is quite strong !!!

    Sooooooooo,any news girls ?

    Here pretty much the same ! Bored to go out the past few months !I go out only for cinema.
    After my training i feel bored to go out and i want to stay in and relax or meet my friends at a house!
    U guys,u won't believe what's going on here!The air is full of dust yesterday and today !And i am not kidding when i say that u can't see nothing!The mountains are gone!It comes from AFRICA they say on the news and in Crete the temp today reached 32 Celsius! WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW !

    That's all for now,cu again my friends !

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  128. LOST-I thought at first you were using reverse psychology but then I wasn't so sure. Thankfully that is exactly what you are doing. Kill them with kindness as the saying goes. Maybe we should all do that. Just post nice things addressed especially to her but I gotta tell ya, she bothers me girl. Now she is spewing venom about God. This girl hates everyone and everything. Your weather is crazy. Sounds like the sandstorms they have in the dessert. Hope it clears up, that stuff makes a mess and not good to breath in. Anyway, thanks for setting the record straight. Nice to have this place to post our private offerings.

    Harlem, each and every time I visit this blog I think about you and thank you.

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  129. B4 anyone starts correcting my spelling, I see the errors. :-)

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  130. gofigor,
    Thanks alot. It is good to chat with you and the girls. As I posted before, I've been having PC problems so I have not been able to post (school's kicking my butt, too!!!). But, I try to post as much as possible.
    I see "our girl" is up to no good again. I agree with you. "Kill them with kindness..." for they are looking for trouble. Maybe that will make them feel better????!!! Nah!!! Not giving misery company. So.....

    Keep the faith!!!

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  131. Wow, it's been 5 days since my last post. I must be slipping. Hope everyone is well. 2sexy4myshirt is at it again!!!!!! Must have some serious issues. Someone must have did her "dirty" in the past and we have to suffer for it. Oh, well!!!
    Have a great day!!!

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  132. HELLO EVERYBODY! It's been a while since I have been here. Harlem girl I feel you. Work and classes have me well in a grip too. Dalice has not been around lately, has anyone 'heard'or 'seen' her anywhere? Same for Gia, but we know she is busy with school and with DEXTER...yes a MAN....and with SKINS. Today is Friday and THANK GOD I do not have to go to work but I have some students coming by later. I intend to go back to bed and catch up on some more zzzzzzzzzzz. LATER PEEPS!

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  133. Hola ladies, I hope you are all doing well. Hopefuly you are all enjoying this crazy, wonderful weather, I know my kids are. Take care

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  134. hi hips...you didn't say the word 'repulsed', it was KS who brought it up about her straight friends. I don't know why Luv started that whole thing and she can be ruthless. When she did it to me, I had to let her have the last word which was not easy.

    I hope ur not leaving the mb. we would be lost without you. Please don't give a shit about what she says. It's so not important.

    Pls say you're sticking around...luv, D

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  135. DALICET, I am NOT AT ALL thin-skinned. The whole debate did not leave me so disenchanted that I would pack up and leave so fear not! I just wanted to state clearly to these 'learned' individuals that EVERYONE is different. Not even TWO GAY people see and feel the same way about any matter.

    That in itself was not offensive but what I really did not appreciate was Luvadove's convenient way of bringing up only BITS and PIECES of a conversation she, Rack and I had one time while leaving out other parts and failing at EVERY turn to answer a single question I ask her to forward proof of me saying what she says I said.

    It does not bother me too much though. There are IGNORANT, JUDGMENTAL people EVERYWHERE. I can deal with that.

    Thanks for your concern though but no need. I am NOT going ANYWHERE.

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  136. good, I'm glad ur not going anywhere...didn't know how pissed u were or not. I don't know why she started that shit to begin with and I have no desire to figure her out!

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  137. Hips..the whole thread is gone! what the hell happened???

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  138. Top of the morn to my peeps,
    Hope everyone is well. It's been a rough week but I made it to the weekend. Also been through some emotional turmoil with a close friend for a few weeks. I believe everything is ok. Just have to get over some small obstacles to get back on track. I think we are moving in the right direction, thank God!!!! It is hard to find good friends. Even good friends have disagreements and get hurt but, you hope to get past the hurt and remain friends. It is devastating to lose a good friend. Almost up there with losing a spouse or lover. Hopefully, I won't have to experience that again. One thing I do suggest, be open to your best friend and talk to them. Hopefully, at the very start, they will understand where you are coming from.

    ;-)

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  139. Just stopped in for the first time in a long while. I have been chatting with my BFF HIPS about some activity on the MB in my absence but not clear what truly transpired. Guess it doesn't matter as she (HIPS) is a very strong willed and confident WOMAN that does not let a lot bother her (wish I could be like that). Anyway, as long as we ignore those negative posters and just concentrate on those of us on this blog who share a mutual respect for each other and our opinions that is all that matters. I was ready to respond to the new alias for CAS but wiser minds prevailed (thank you HIPS) and decided to ignore her. completely. I would hope the rest of you will do the same. She is not going to go away and neither will our posts as long as we don't engage with her. I love you guys.

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  140. gofigor,
    Welcome back. Sorry to hear it wasn't warm in Florida. Mother Nature is throwing all of us for a loop.
    I agree. CAS' new alias: Won't give her the time of day. She wants to be negative then let her do so on the MB. They'll put her in check. Thank God she did not sign up on our blog. This is the happy place.
    Peace and love to all my peeps!!!

    :-)

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  141. As much as I believe God is involved in everything we do in life Harlem, it is "thank Harlem" that she is not signed up on our blog. You hold the key and you decide who will join the 'sisterhood' or not, so again, as I have said many times before....THANK YOU for creating this blog where we can talk openly and freely without fear of having our comments expunged and/or CAS (or whatever the hell moniker she is using at present) cannot spew her drivel.

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  142. Hey people !!! How are u girls ?

    We all know now that this crazy bitch(CAS or whatever her name is),won't stop attacking us,so ladies,as i have said,let's "enjoy" her posts by not replying !It's the best way for all of us.
    I am glad we have the blog to express our thoughts on any issue..
    My wishe to all of u for a wonderful and peaceful weekend !

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  143. HIPS.....R U trying to kill me? Give a girl a heads up when you steer someone here. I know the pix was for our Blogger President, Ms. Harlem, but you know the rest of us are visiting from time to time. :-)

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  144. gofigor,
    Isn't it wonderful? I've died and gone to heaven!!!! Enjoy as well!!!

    ;-)

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  145. Harlem,

    I hear ya sister. That HIPS has a way of toying with our heart strings. I know she is a guitarist, but strumming with "these" strings is causing my blood pressure to rise. You must admit though, it is the gift that keeps on giving! ;-)

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  146. GOFIGOR, LOL!!!!!!!!!! well a little strumming of the heartstrings are good every now and then. It will keep it in 'tune'. LOL!!!!

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  147. Ladies, wanted to post this for those of you unware of this movie. Still can't figure out why they would release this movie in the summertime (I hear it is scheduled to be out in August 2010), but felt you (especially you Harlem) should know about it so you can look for it this summer.

    JENNIFER BEALS TO STAR IN

    ‘THE NIGHT BEFORE THE NIGHT BEFORE CHRISTMAS,’ A HALLMARK CHANNEL ORIGINAL MOVIE Will Premiere on Hallmark Channel in 2010

    Jennifer Beals (“The L Word,” “Lie To Me”) has been cast to star in “The Night Before the Night Before Christmas,” a Hallmark Channel Original Movie about a family that’s too busy to get ready for the holidays until Santa Claus mistakenly leaves the North Pole a day early and crash lands on their roof, and it’s suddenly up to the family to help save Christmas.

    The Night Before the Night Before Christmas” has begun production in Toronto, Canada, and is set to premiere on Hallmark Channel in 2010. (Note the movie is IN THE CAN, as they say, ladies)

    Angela Fox (Beals) and her husband, Wayne (Rick Roberts, “The Note”), are so busy juggling their busy careers – she’s a professional photographer and he’s an aviation executive – they haven’t gotten around to shopping or decorating for Christmas. And with Christmas two days away, their house is the only house in the neighborhood that isn’t decorated at all. Suddenly, after having a mid-flight accident, Santa Claus and his reindeer land with a thud on their roof. The Foxes decide to check on the commotion and think at first that he’s just a mall Santa, but with the help of their son, Toby, who still believes, they decide to play along to help Santa out. But he’s lost his memory and his magical bag and soon they realize they’ve got a true crisis on their hands -- and that they better start helping Santa remember what’s he supposed to do so that the world doesn’t have to miss Christmas.

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  148. For those who have not seen this video, enjoy.
    Harlem, take a heart pill and sit down before you watch. (wink)

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pcEg6MuQxGU

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  149. hi everybody...so glad we have this blog...seems so dead over on SHO.

    Hi Harlem...are u still watching TLW on Logo? No reruns at all have been on for 2 weeks now?
    WTF?

    Hi Gia, where do I find 'Skins' please?

    Hi gofigor, lol..I agree, Harlem...make sure ur sitting down befor watching video!

    I hope somebody answers me...

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  150. Hi Dalicet (and the rest of my peeps)
    Dali-I agree TLW has not been seen on LOGO for a while but April 2 at 12 am Majora episode is playing on LOGO. I found a site that gives you everything JB is in, when it is on, whether it is DVD, TV or video. I think the site is Locatetv.com...then click on people and type in Jennifer Beals. You can get specifics as to what is playing in your area by typing in your zip code and cable network. If you can't find this let me know and I will backtrack to see if I can give you a better URL.
    Peeps, I am sure it has not gone unnoticed that CAS is up to her old tricks again, signing on as sunshine80. Be forewarned this thread is going to get clipped again soon. She is being cool right now but something will trigger her to spew her shit again (sorry).

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  151. gofigor...thanks my friend. I'll check out locatetv.com...
    there were so many posts that were cut but I never seem to catch what CAS or 'sunshine' posts...does she start cursing or what?

    do you have the LWord dvds gofigor? I have them but I still watch the shitty quality on logo.

    do u watch Grey's Anatomy? Think it takes place in your home state of Washington, yes?
    Sara Gilbert played a dying young woman who was allowed to die by her own hand in the hospital.
    great story and enlightenment.

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  152. Dali-Surprised you have not seen ANY of her posts before being clipped. She hates straight women and apparently any of you guys that think we are OK. She taunts the crap out of FATTY about her 'imagined' (her thought not mine) relationship with Kitty, etc. But she is not prejudice, she has taunted many of us.
    I have Season 1-5 on DVD and I taped all of Season 6 when they originally aired. LOGO chops the crap out of this show but it is still better than nothing. It appears they have nothing planned for the next few months as our choices have been that stupid Buffy the
    Vampire or RuPaul's Drag Race. NO THANKS!!!
    Do not watch Gray's Anatomy, watch very little local network programs. You are mistaken about my location. I live in Michigan.
    BTW, Flashdance is airing soon too but is on VH 1-Classic.

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  153. hi gofigor...KS mentioned TLW would be on April 2nd and April 9th starting at midnite.
    I have seen a few of 'sunshine's' posts and Fatty comes back at her and rightly so. But,don't know what pushes the buttons of the mods...then a whole bunch of posts disappear.

    In fact, I went to reply to KS on the other board just a few minutes ago, but 'sunshine'has added her posts to 2 threads and I'm trying to ignore her. She's not being nasty..yet! I know u guys are trying not to engage her.

    It's freaken cold in Michigan!! Thought u were a Seattle girl..lol..

    I don't even know why I watch Logo at all! except that I was trying to tape some of my favorite Alice and Tibette scenes. As it turns out, I'm lousy at it! ha

    bye for now ladies.

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  154. Now she's getting nasty about someone mentioning their period!!! I can't find a any post about that!

    I would never engage her...that's what she wants. She's purposely trying to get on all our nerves. Thank God for this blog..harlem,dear! lol...

    Gia if you read this, pls tell me if I can tape a dvd on a tv with a built-in VCR? help me. thanks.

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  155. Dali-You need to follow our codes. My BFF and our fellow blogger HIPS mentioned being in the RED.
    BTW, Michigan weather has been great. Snow is all gone, lake is no longer frozen, temps are going into the 60's next week and Spring is in the air. Spent a week in Florida last month and weather there was not all that great either. Hope WikiGia has an answer for you.

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  156. hi gofigor...guess I didn't go back far enuf. If I had noticed the 'red' I would have gotten the code...lol..sometimes, I just speed read, so I must have missed it.

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  157. Hey hey my peeps,
    Hope everyone is well. Been out of the loop for a few days. Took a road trip to Miami. Just got back today. Had two gorgeous days of sun, rode in a glass bottom boat, viewed the coral reef, almost got sea-sick, but had a good time. The blue water was magnificent.
    go: Haven't seen the video of JB yet but you can bet your bottom dollar I will. ;-)
    Yep, I noticed that TLW has not been playing on LOGO.
    dali: I still watch and record but they have been screwing up the episode sequences. Hopefully, LOGO or maybe Showtime will start the series from the beginning!!!!! ;-)
    (I can dream!!!!! LOL)
    Leave Sunshine80 to her own misery!!!!
    Have a good night, my people. Got to get some sleep. Been driving since yesterday and I have to get up early (5AM EST)to handle some family stuff. Take care until later!!!

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  158. gofigor,hi...why is hips telling u to 'PLEASE RECONSIDER'? ur not leaving us are u??

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  159. Dali-Thank you for caring. I could never leave you guys, you are FRAMILY! (HAHA). I will continue blogging here until President Harlem throws me out!(Smile)

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  160. Hi gofigor..well, that's good news! whew!

    Are u having a problem logging into the SHO boards? I've been trying to,yesterday and today with no luck. Damn!

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  161. Dali-Nope, no problems with me but I see that Stickeye is having some difficulties as well. Hope whatever it is gets fixed.

    I will be heading downstate tomorrow to spend the holiday with my family and to visit with my friends.

    To those of you who celebrate the holiday, I wish you A Very Happy Easter. (Watch out for those chocolate bunnies).

    To those that don't have a very pleasant and enjoyable weekend.

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  162. Happy Easter to all who celebrate!

    Here's the new cast (6 women) of the REAL L WORD...check this out!

    http://www.afterellen.com/blog/dorothysnarker/breaking-cast-of-the-real-l-word-announced

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  163. HEY PEEPS!

    Oh it has been a while! DALICET, I checked out the cast of the REAL L WORD and the comments too and it seems that some posters are not happy that the cast is not diverse i.e no one of colour, no butches, no one of the middle income bracket etc.. etc..
    I read some that were pleased though because of what they feel is the stereotypical image most straight people have of lesbians i.e butch baggy jeans wearing women. What's your view?

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  164. Hello HIPS, FATTY, GIA, LOST, DALICET, HARLEM & KITTY. Stopping by for a moment to say howdy to all of you. Spring is finally here (hopefully) and summer cannot be far away.
    Hope everyone is doing well. I am finally able to get out in the yard and do some clean up. You would think my BFF HIPS would offer this old hen some assistance but alas NOT. I guess that 'having respect for your elders' is not something truly practiced by many YOUNGSTERS! Doesn't mean I love you any less my love ;-)
    I suspect most of you are just busy with school and work as it seems there is little to no activity here. I am just as guilty as the next guy, or should I say gal.
    Maybe we should just post an I'm OK when visiting if there is nothing to write, so that we know things are good with all of you.
    Just a thought. Be well and stay true to yourselves my friends.

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  165. Hello my peeps,
    Been out of the loop for a while. My mom was hospitalized for a surgical procedure (with the possiblity of fatality) so I've been a little busy. Hope everyone is well.
    I saw the promo for "The Real L Word" on Showtime which is scheduled to premier in June. I almost had a heart attack. I thought they were bringing back our girlz (the use of The L Word's pink lettering caused sheer excitement!!!)I might give it a try. Looks interesting. Of course, no one can take the place of our girlz.
    So, I'll holla back later. Got some catching up to do. Have a great day!!!

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  166. HARLEM my friend, good to finally see you here. My best wishes for your mom's full recovery. Hold her close Harlem and never miss a chance to tell her you love her. Too many of us on this blog have lost our moms and that void can never be filled.

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  167. Hi everyone...hope ur enjoying ur day...

    I saw the trailer for the Real L Word but I blinked and missed most of it.lol.. I think I saw an Asian and Spanish gal but can't be sure. One of them is flat-chested like Shane.

    Hi Hips...don't know what to make of all the women yet...I think the cast info is on youtube somewhere. I'm looking forward to this show and what kind of reviews the press and media will give...they're always making fun of reality shows, especially 'The Soup' and 'Chelsea Lately'.

    Season 5 of TLW will be shown on LOGO in May,supposedly! Big fvckin' deal that gay man's channel is throwing us a boner! lol..

    Hi Harlem...your Mom is in my prayers.

    bye for now...(can't believe what's going on in Iceland!)

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  168. Hey gofigor and jojabl7,
    Thanks for the well wishes and prayers. I'm thankful to God, Almighty that my Mom is here with me. God has looked out for her in every serious medical matter and for that I am grateful. I cherish my Mom each and every waking day!!! My heart goes out to all my friends who have lost their Mom. Nothing can replace them!!!
    Have a wonderful weekend!!!

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  169. Hi Everyone, just stopping in to say hello. Weather here has been crazy, one day warm and sunny, next day snow. Good old Michigan.
    FYI you will only see me posting here. I have pretty much given up on the MB as much as I truly enjoyed posting on my BFF HIPS thread, MY FANTASY. Although we disagree with my reasons for this decision, I am thankful that she still loves me! (You do, don't you HIPS?)
    LOST, glad you had a chance to see the trailer for JB's upcoming TV show. No woman can wear a power suit like her.
    Gia, Fatty, Kitty, Dali, hope you guys are doing well.
    Harlem, hope your mom is doing better.
    HIPS-Tu Sei il Mio Unico e Solo!!!

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  170. GOOD EVENING EVERYBODY!!!

    Just stopping by to give a shout out to all my girls! Harlem I am soooo happy for you. I truly agree with you when it comes to the value of a mother in one's life. Having lost my mom about 7 years now, I honestly ache to hear about anyone whose mom is any physical distress. CHERISH HER INDEED!
    EVERYBODY, I hope that all is otherwise with you all.
    Gofigor, don't know what those words mean but.

    I AGREE! hahahhaahhaaa!!!

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  171. Evening my friends. Just stopping in to give you some info. Not sure how many of you still have Showtime but I see that, just as I and many of you predicted, they are airing all of Season 6 on May 20th. It appears it will run all episodes that day (they call that a marathon-ha) and no doubt is a lead up to the new show. Why they couldn't have run the entire series during this long wait is beyond me but better something than nothing.
    Hope all of you are doing well and those that enjoy the 4 seasons as I do are enjoying some warmer weather (Thank God!).

    HARLEM-I continue to keep your mom in my prayers. Stop by and let us know how she is doing.

    HIPS-Tu Sei il Mio Unico e Solo!!!

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  172. gofigor,
    My Mom is improving every day and just as stubborn as ever. People now see where I get my stubborness from. But, we believe that one should rely on oneself. Whatever you need to do you should be able to do whatever you need by yourself. Of course, this has limitations but that is the mindset for the most part.
    Thank you for asking and thank you for your prayers. Both have been a blessing.
    Take care to you and all of my peoples!!!!

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  173. Hello everyone...hope you're having a great weekend. It's a beautiful day.
    I've been over at SHOWTIME'S "Jackie" message boards. Does anyone watch it?? KS dropped by, guess she likes it too.

    Just heard the story about 'Buddy' the dog leading the cops to his owner's house that was on fire. German Sheps are so smart!

    It's been real quiet around the boards, kinda strange.

    Well, I'm off to see my nephew and buy a new MP3. Have to keep up with my dancing (great exercise!) Be good, my friends!

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  174. HIPS I am so so sorry that bitch f*#%ed up your birthday thread. She is a vile, uncivil, uncouth, ignorant, mean spirited devil. At least for now, however, she is leaving our pal Fatty alone. The freaking MB monitor should have her number by now and eliminate her altogether, profile and all, so she can NEVER post again under any moniker.

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  175. Gofigor, I do not pay any attention to what she writes. I was and am only interested in what people like yourself and my pals here post to me or post on the MB. Her comments whatever they are DO NOT take away ANYTHING from the appreciation I felt for what you guys said and did for me. THANK YOU!!!

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  176. Hello, my peeps,
    It's a beautiful day in the hood. Go out and enjoy before the rain.
    You know where you are if this is the forcasted weather. LOL

    Have a wonderful weekend!!! ;-)

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  177. HARLEM - My friend, please give us an update on your mom.
    HIPS- Glad to see you are still celebrating and enjoying your birthday:-)
    LOST-Reading some alarming things going on in Athens. I hope that things settle down and people realize that rioting/violence is never the answer nor does it resolve anything. It seems there is unrest in most countries these days, including right here in the U.S.A.
    FATTY-When are you going to learn NOT to engage that person? HIPS has the right idea. Don't read it, ignore it. Engaging her just prompts more crap from her. This is why I have chosen not to post on the MB. I cannot deal with it. This vile, evil spirited individual has ruined many threads with her venomous taunts of all of us. Be strong girl, resist the temptation to respond.
    GIA & DALI I suspect your lives are busy with school or work. Hope all is well.

    Everyone have a great week! :D

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  178. hi everyone, just wanted to say hello...check out Tibette.com for update on Jennifer Beals tomorrow event.

    Where is Gia? is a good question. Hope she's ok. She's so lucky to live in L.A.

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  179. gofigor,
    My mom is doing well, thank you. She got a clean bill of health from her doctor, which is great. Right now, I am making sure she is well spiritually, physically, and emotionally. Making sure she has no pressure; trying to alleviate as much stress as possible. We spend a lot of time talking. I think that I am now her rock. It's all good in my new role.

    Dalice711,
    Where is Gia? Haven't seen her on the MB. We have to get her out of hiding. BTW, still looking for Bette's Saab. Have seen a few but not the one like hers.
    ;-)

    Fatty,
    I've been reading some of the posts from SS80 on the MB. Don't even reply. It's a waste of your time. Don't fall into that negativity. It is a waste of your energy. Take a cue from JB. Read the article in First magagzine. Go to the tibette.com site. The article is still there.

    For all of my peeps,
    Have a wonderful Mother's Day. All women are mothers even if they don't have children or pets!!! We are always nurturing someone in some kind of way. It's just part of who we are: good, bad, or indifferent.

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  180. We lost a great lady on Sunday, the incomparable Lena Horne. I grew to have a great appreciation for her when I learned how much she endured at the beginning of her career. When I was young and did not know her history, I thought that she was brash. I have come to learn that her brashness was her way of speaking out against injustice. She spoke her mind. Not everyone was listening, nor was I. I learned to listen and realized that she said a lot. Through perserverance, she was finally able to obtain the respect that was due her. She will be missed.

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  181. GOOD AFTERNOON LADIES!!

    Oh it has been a while! This week is EXAMS for me and next week exams for my students. It is going to be more crazier for me than it is already. Just wanted to say hi to my peeps though. Glad to hear the good news about your mom HARLEM and I am glad to see MOST of us are still around here.
    WHERE IS GIA???????????

    FATTY if you see her online anytime, tell her she is missed and we would like her to take just a minute or two to let us know how she is doing either here or on the MB.

    LOST my darling, I miss you! I hope for your sake and for the sake of your country that things settle down quickly and they make a turn for the better soon. You and yours are in my thoughts.

    GALS keep good!

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  182. HARLEM- I agree, Lena Horne was quite a lady. I had followed her career and had learned about her struggles early on. Despite being knocked down at every step, she held her head high and endured through it all. I loved her style and grace. She will be sorely missed.

    HIPS-I would wish you good luck on your exams but I know you will not need it. You will ace them all. I am sure with your extraordinary tutoring your students will excel as well.

    GIA is definitely MIA. I only hope that it is due to school or other business and not that she has been ill or something sad is going on in her life.

    FATTY-Apparently now Ms Sunshine is warning posters to stay out of our FANTASY thread because it belongs to STRAIGHT PEOPLE!!! This individual's moniker is far from fitting. SUNSHINE MY ASS!!!!! (Sorry)

    LOST-It appears, at least from what I have seen on the news, that things have settled down for your country and monetary help has been sent. I hope all is well with you and you are feeling a little better. You spoke about considering a move. Remember this- ACT IN HASTE....REPENT AT LEISURE! Do not make any rash decisions. Again I quote...THIS TOO SHALL PASS. The US is not doing much better and is also in a financial crisis but we roll with the punches here. Hang in there.

    DALI-Hope things are going well for you. Stop in once in a while. We want to hear what is going on in your life.

    Later ladies.

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  183. Hi everyone...I just got finished typing 3 paragraphs and now it's gone...WTFFF!

    Hope everybody is doing ok, it sounds like it.
    I'll be back...I'm just so pissed right now!
    luv, Dali

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  184. Did anyone check out the AfterEllen.com polls? Jennifer Beals got the #1 pick for the Hottest Woman over 40 and the Hottest Woman of Color. I knew she would win!!! She is the hottest woman on the planet!!!. Hoo-rah!!!!
    Jennifer was in NY today. It appears she's promoting her new series Ride Along that is scheduled for Spring 2011. Way to go!!! Can't wait to see it. Now is she doing Lie to Me and Ride Along? She's a busy lady!!! Sorry I missed her. :(
    How's my peeps doin'? Hope everyone is well. I see traffic has been light. Everyone's busy, I guess. Come on back!!!!
    School is over and I can relax a little bit. Whoo! What a year!!! My brain is just about fried. It's all good.
    Did anyone make contact with Gia? She is seriously MIA!!!! Hope everything is well with her.
    Check y'all later!

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  185. Good to see you here Harlem. Yeah for JB, I am happy to see her finally recognized for her beauty & HOTNESS!!!! But she is soooooo much more. As for Lie To Me, she has a recurring role and appeared only a few times last season. I suspect she will be in the upcoming season as well since she plays the ex-wife of the leading character and they have a child together. I enjoy the show despite many of the MB posters knocking it. As for GIA, she did pop up in HIPS thread, MY FANTASY. Says she has been busy and dealing with some personal issues but is okay. Happy to hear you are done with school. Now you can relax and take a deep breath. Seems all are out of school now. So maybe now traffic on our blog and the board will pick up.
    DALI-come back and let us know what you were trying to write when you got deleted.
    Shout out to my other pals......and to my BFF....Tu Sei il Mio Unico e Solo!!!
    L8tr ladies...

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  186. Hey ladies ! How are u ?
    I am doing ok,thank God ! Not great,but ok !
    I don't know why,byt i can't log in in here.Maybe it's because i haven't been here for a long time !
    I hope everyone is fine !And thank girls for your support ! I love u and miss u all !

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  187. Hello, my peeps.
    Hope everyone is well. Seen a few on TLW's MB. Good to see you there, as well. Glad to see that Gia is okay. I was starting to wonder. Hope every has Memorial Day as a holiday and if you don't, take a holiday anyway. Be safe and enjoy!!!

    Peace!

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  188. Howdy everyone. Just stopping by to say hello to my special pals. Had a wonderful Memorial Day with my family coming up from down state. Weather was picture perfect. Glad to see sunshine and warmth so early in the season. Hope everyone is doing good.

    Hey LOST...thinking about you when the news flashed across the screen showing a gazillion frogs running around the streets. They said they were coming up out of the water looking for food and had to close some roads down because people were crashing their cars in an effort to avoid hitting them. It was a funny, light moment in what has been not so great news,in an economic sense, for your country.

    BTW....anyone wondering about HIPS, please know she is OK but has had a serious problem with her PC so she may be MIA for a while.

    Be well everyone.....

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  189. Hi to all of my favourite ladies !!! How are girls? Hope everyone is more than fine !

    I am ok,doing the same things ! The only new is that i am trying to get a job at the local post offices and i have to gather many many papers !

    Gofigor !Glad to see that u had a great time with your family ! As for the frogs,i saw it too ! There were toooooooo many and they were everywhere ! lol lol lol lol
    And thank u for telling tis about Hips,cause i was very worried ! I was texting her on msn,but nothing ! Again problem with her pc? Hope she will fix it really soon !

    Take care ladies and see u !!!

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  190. I see sunshine80 is at it again on the MB. A blessing in disguise for hips, maybe???!!! How does she know all of us are straight? She gets around!!!

    ROFLMAO

    :-)

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  191. Harlem...as for Sunshine, yes I saw it too and as you know, it is for that reason I have stopped posting on the board. HIPS has told me often that she does not read her postings, doesn't care what she has to say, and will not stay away because of her because she feels that is playing into her hands. I am not so thick skinned. I feel she has ruined every thread with her shit. I continue to be puzzled by her. If she is gay, she should understand what it is to be discriminated against yet she herself discriminates against the straight people. What did we do to her? She should be happy to see that there are some straight people who are supportive. But nooooooooooooooooooo. To answer your question, I think the three of us, Me, Lost and HIPS have said many times in HIPS FANTASY thread and elsewhere on the board that we are straight. I guess she sees that as threatening?? Who knows.
    Anyway I spoke with HIPS last evening. It does not look good for her and her PC so everyone say a private prayer that she will be up and running soon. I think this PC thing is a virus being passed from one of us to the other. I was out of commission for a week or so. Had it fixed and then crashed again and had to take it back. It still isn't operating properly but it works enuf to let me get by.
    Anyway, glad to see you guys have returned to do some posting here. This is usually where I get my info on you guys and feel the most comfortable in saying what I want to say. Hope others return here as well.
    In the meanwhile....everyone be good and enjoy the rest of your week.

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  192. gofigor,
    Like you, I am going to continue to post on the MB. I enjoy our friends POVs and I like to put my 2 cents in, too!!! LOL
    I'm not going to worry about SS80. Nasty person, that one or playing the nasty one. Whatever floats their boat.
    Sorry to hear that you and Hips are having PC problems. It must be the weather!!! LOL
    Have a great weekend.
    Waiting for TRLW premiere. I'm starting to like the one that looks like Sara Ramirez from Grey's Anatomy!!!Must check her out. But, of course, no one can replace Jennie B. She's still my girl. Waiting for RideAlong, too. A female Chief of Police. Hot damn!!!!

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  193. HARLEM my friend. You misunderstood. I no longer post on the MB. It is hard for me to ignore the posts of SS80.
    As for JB, well I am right there with you. Just read a recent interview she did with Afterellen and the pix are a constant reminder of what a beautiful woman she is, both inside and outside. I too am looking forward to RideAlong and hope that it does well so the network picks it up for a second season. I am a fan of the show CASTLE where the lead detective is a woman and know that JB will give her a run for her money. I am going to watch TRLW season premier but have to admit that I am not hot about it. I guess I do not like that they have fashioned the show and the women so much like TLW. Even the music is the same. The show should have to stand on its own merits and not leave us to compare the two. TLW wins hands down!!!! (IMO)

    I spoke with HIPS yesterday and her PC is still down. I have my fingers crossed that whatever the damage, it is repairable without much expense.

    LOST, a news bit on TV this morning suggested that GREECE might be in financial trouble as a result of the 2004 Olympics. They claim that the money spent excessive and waaaaaaaaaaay over budget and that the country has never recovered from it. Wonder your thoughts. They also said that MONTREAL, a very wealthy city in Canada, has just paid off its debts from the 1976 OLYMPICS they held. Unbelievable. Hope things have improved for you and your people. Wondering if you have been out to dinner recently....I understand there is a big special on....frog legs???? Hahaha.
    Going out to mow the lawn. Hi to all my peeps.
    BTW HARLEM, is your mom still doing well?

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  194. gofigor,
    My mom is doing great. Thanks, my dear!!! We continue to monitor her health and promote prevention.
    Enjoying a great weekend, despite the humid weather. But, I am loving it.
    By the by, if you have the cable channel "CUNY TV" the show "Times Talk" will re-broadcast "Life After the L Word" on Thursday, June 17th at 4am (EST). NY Times Food Critic Kim Severson interviewed Ilene Chaiken and Jennifer Beals about TLW after the season finale. I was in the audience, about seven rows back from the stage, off of stage left. I was in seventh heaven!!!!!! It was a chance of a lifetime that I will never forget, despite getting soaked in the rain getting to The Center.
    Just for Jennifer!!!!!!
    ;-)

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  195. gofigor,
    Sorry to lose you from the MB. I don't pay SS80 any attention. I'm not going to give up my joy of interacting with those that still love TLW and who want to post about "our" show. Or, give up posting with those who still post to the MB and those that post to this blog. I love the POV's of the MB. Though TLW posts and our blog have died down a bit, I still post every now and then to the MB and check in with the blog. Got to keep it going for our "girlz" and my peeps. But, I understand your position so I'll look for you here.
    Have a great weekend!!!

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